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“From where?” you may say. From working outside the home 30-40 hours a week, on top of babysitting our mortgage companies antics – away from my boys and all that keeps me, me.
Not to say I didn’t enjoy my work – I have a secret – I LOVE WORKING! And there lies my problem. I love working so much, that I tend to over due it. Family… what family?
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So, after 6 months, and the majority of our repair bills paid off (would have been more if Seterus would stop screwing up our mortgage… but I digress..), I’ve come home again. And four hours after being out of work, I was going nuts! But that’s ok. I had plans….
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…two days after that, I sprained my wrist severely on our lovely, lovely ice/snow/ice combo.
*There goes my plans*
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I enjoyed my very active job. I enjoyed helping people feel better. I enjoyed helping them find what they needed. And I enjoyed “owning” “my section”. I loved my co-workers, and most of the people I met. (I’m talking to you crazy woman who commented on my parenting skills!)
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Beforehand I thought God had given this to us just at the right time to give us the extra cash we needed to get these bills paid off. But I started to realize He gave it to me at this time to help tire me out. Spin my wheels a bit.
I’m a doer. A fixer. I want something; I make it myself. I want something done; I get it done myself. And I keep trying to fix this problem myself. The last few years though, I’m slowly starting to get that I can’t. I have to give it to God – AND LEAVE IT. And for someone like myself, that. is. excruciating.
Yes we got some extra cash to pay down the repair bills, but He threw in a few extra kinks to show me that there will always be something, if I allow it, to keep me from enjoying my family and the life He’s set out for us.
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And my plans for getting the whole house cleaned and the renovation started back up, got kicked out from under me with a sprained wrist.
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*ARE YOU FINALLY READY TO REST AND GIVE IT TO ME*
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What my bible study ladies, my dentist man, and God have all been trying to tell me for a very long time.
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And as I’m arguing…. eh er… praying this morning in frustration over not knowing our next step. What I should be doing. Feeling like a flopping fish out of water. My daily bible verse showed up.
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Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord.